It is possible to determine the partner's availability for intimacy not only by the state of her penis. An erection is not always visible, but it is often important for a woman to be aware of what she likes. It is easy to understand that a man got aroused easily and for other signs often not so direct.
Non-verbal signals
Like it or not, a man from external manifestations of behavior and reactions of the body shows his interest in an object of the opposite sex. Non-verbal messages from a partner will help to understand their condition and their readiness for intercourse. Often the repetition of actions speaks of the desire for him. This "mirroring" is a clear symptom of passion and desire for a closer relationship.
When communicating, a man caught in passion will try to approach, reduce the distance from the object of desire, and this action is performed automatically without awareness. In addition, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, make physical contact, but this does not mean that the excited partner will develop an offensive without observing the rules of decency.
The contact will be rather casual, light, without obsessions, but the excitement that a man feels during such contact is clearly felt. A woman understands that this behavior is not accidental, seeing the persistence and a certain nervousness of human behavior.
It is also important to record the external manifestations in the behavior of a man. In the moment of excitement, he tries to straighten his shoulders, pull his stomach, present his figure in a favorable light. Often, due to arousal, the partner begins to lick his lips, grab his chin, nose or ears with his fingers, which is also typical for women.
The signs of a man's arousal, manifested non-verbally, can be reduced to a small list of characteristics of his behavior:
- an excited man tries to please a woman: move a chair, open a door, help carry something or serve;
- try to reduce the distance in communication;
- during a conversation, a man tries to establish light body contact;
- a man, burning with passion for a woman, does his best to be alone with her more often.
Poses of a man
The need to display sexual attraction in implicit ways arose in an age of strict rules and regulations, when the attitude towards the intimate process was taboo by the moral codes and standards of the church. Both the man and the woman needed to demonstrate to their partner a willingness to act without fear of publicity and public censorship. It was in these cases that the non-verbal signals made it possible to know sympathies and desires.
Wanting a woman and not showing her is wrong, from a normal man's point of view. Therefore, a potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to show the object of her desire her interest through sexual gestures and postures.
The man shows most gestures and postures on a reflex level without realizing his sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them clearly indicate interest, others are more hidden and are only read by a girl ready for contact.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he unwittingly starts giving an "alpha male". He denotes readiness for sexual intercourse with safe postures and showing a high tone of the physical state of his body. This is usually seen in the following manifestations:
- man straightens his back and straightens his shoulders;
- he tries to draw the stomach deeper;
- if a man is standing, his legs are shoulder-width apart, showing special stability and a strong stance;
- it is also important to keep track of the location of the man's shoe socks, if he is interested in an attractive person, then they will be directed to this woman;
- if a man is sitting on a chair, he will involuntarily spread his legs, then, as if he were showing his genitals, ready for mating.
The involuntary postures and gestures of a man who wants to take possession of a woman he likes often resemble the behavior of male monkeys during mating and mating games, indicating the common roots of primates and humans.
The excited man begins to straighten his clothes and hair in hopes of attracting the woman's attention with his appearance of her. Instead of an edgy and heavy gait, he moves quickly, like an athlete, while he corrects the flaws of the figure, straightens and removes his stomach. A sheen appears in his eyes, the skin on his face is automatically stretched, and the bags under his eyes disappear on their own. In general, passion makes a person much younger and indeed more desirable for a friend.
Now such a gesture is rarely used, and many have already forgotten it, but even fifty years ago, the thumbs placed behind the belt of the trousers meant a rude and ostentatious action towards a woman, aimed at demonstrating one's genitals.
The delay in the man's gaze on the object of his lust says a lot. When he looks a woman in the eye for a little longer than the rules of decency dictate, it indicates his arousal and willingness for closer contact.
The position of the hands on her hips shows a woman the physical superiority of a man over other rivals, his power and strength of her, and therefore his willingness to procreate.
It is noteworthy that women are more sensitive to manifestations of male attention and quickly notice all the tricks of a possible partner, while a guy may not understand the sympathy shown to him by the girl for a long time.
Physical manifestations
The state of arousal in a man manifests itself not only with the erection of the penis, but also with other physiological signs, often not so obvious.
A man, subject to passion, often straightens the details of his clothes, unties the knot of his tie, which literally begins to strangle him. The breathing becomes rhythmic, the timbre of the voice can change to a lower one, the gaze becomes blurred, the pulse quickens, the blood pressure jumps. Features of behavior during this period are very difficult to hide from external attention, and even more so from the object of desire - a woman immediately catches such signs and consciously takes note of them.
A man can be aroused not only by direct manifestations of a woman's sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts about intimacy. The impending wave of passion captures the partner and her behavior changes according to her temperament and hormone levels. The general signs of erotic tension are the physiological indicators listed above, which, in terms of symptoms, resemble a stressful state. In addition to rapid breathing and heartbeat, changes in voice and pressure, increased muscle tone, dilation of the pupils and increased salivation occur.
During an erection, a clear liquid is released from the penis, which does not contain sperm, but is a kind of lubricant that allows it to penetrate the woman's vagina without much effort. It arises along the walls of the urethra and remains on the head of the penis in the form of a drop.
Fat comes from Cooper's glands and contains various enzymes. This clear liquid has several functions:
- removes the remains of urine in the urethra;
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the woman's vagina;
- the viscous consistency of the lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra for the release of sperm;
- the lubricant allows you to perform friction during intercourse without injuring the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body and can range from a small drop to 5 ml. The main purpose of excreting this fluid is to provide a favorable environment for conceiving a baby. Neutralizing the acidic atmosphere of the vagina is necessary to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of a man's sexual arousal is penile erection. Due to the increased blood supply to the penis, the cavernous bodies are filled with plasma, and the size of the organ increases significantly in length and width.
The change in erect penis size from usual depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body, but it has been noted that a small penis enlarges more noticeably than a larger organ.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, thanks to which its penetration into the woman's vagina is ensured, the man at this moment is already completely ready for coitus and the passion flares up even more.
During penetration into a woman's breasts, the man's body is even more involved in the process of intercourse. The heart rate increases, the muscle tension reaches its limit, the pressure rises even higher
and it becomes almost impossible to restrain the passion.
The culmination of sexual intercourse for a man is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. The pleasure lasts for 5-10 seconds and occurs due to the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate gland as it pushes through the seminal fluid of the urethra filled with millions of sperm.
A man during orgasm can make sudden sounds and moans. The volume of semen depends on the constitution of the person and the duration of abstinence.